Thursday, 15 January 2015

10 SIGNS YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU

Recent studies show that over 50% of men and 50% of
women cheat at some point in their relationship. With
such
alarming numbers, one may wonder if his/her mate is
cheating. If you have a "gut" feeling that something is
going on, chances are high that you could be correct.
Here
are the top ten signs to look for that might mean your
partner is cheating:
1. S/He takes the cell phone everywhere. Taking the
phone
everywhere, including the bathroom, is a red flag. Doing
so
can help the cheating partner hide text messages or
make
secret calls. If your partner is attached at the hip to the
cell
phone there might be cause for alarm.
2. S/He always has a reason you cannot hang out or visit
their living space. Not being able to visit, announced or
otherwise, could mean there is something to hide. In the
early stages of a relationship, this boundary is expected.
But
as time progresses and the boundary remains high,
cheating
might be the reason.
3. S/He no longer initiates or seems interested in sex. A
sudden decrease in interest in being intimate could
mean
that someone else is satisfying your partner.
4. S/He falls off the map suddenly and frequently. You're
texting or messaging and all of a sudden your partner
falls
off the map. When asked, s/he does not give a clear or
reasonable explanation.
5. Working late… a lot! Suddenly, when you ask to make
plans the excuse is always "I have to work late." Perhaps
the
excuse is legitimate on occasion, but when this excuse
becomes habitual it could be a red flag for cheating
activities.
6. Always ready to run an errand. When a partner always
volunteers to run an errand or looks for insignificant
reasons to get out of the house, cheating could be the
culprit.
7. S/He gets upset if you touch his/her phone. You pick
up
his phone to check the time or date and your partner
overreacts. This response could be an indication that
there is
something in the phone to hide.
8. Sudden increased interest in appearance. A new
wardrobe and a new perfume or cologne could be signs
on
interest in someone else.
9. S/He keeps you a clandestine secret. S/he has met
your
friends but not the reverse. Being kept a secret could be
a
sign that there is something to hide from you.
10. S/He avoids contact with you on social media. You
are
not allowed to follow him/her on Instagram or you
cannot
be his/her friend on Facebook are big, red warning signs
that your partner could have a secret relationship.
Indeed, accusations of cheating and infidelity are
serious.
These are just a few things to look for that could
possibly
indicate fidelity. With more than half of both genders
engaging in cheating behaviors, the likelihood that your
intuition is right is pretty high.

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