Relationship Rules You Need To Know

  Relationship Rules
1. BE NICE- for your relationship to be close to 80 percent good, you should know how to make use of these words "Thank You"
Am Sorry" and "Please". Remember your basic manners and speak with respect, be kind to each other, if your partner comes home after a tiring day, don't allow or give him a chance to take out their irritation on you. Ask them how his or her day was and listen to what they have to say "BE INTERESTED".
make him take his bath, serve him his dinner, give him a massage if he talks of body pain and let him rest well in both arms. If you have kids, set a  good example to them, you are not being nice in order to make them nice back rather because you love, cherish and adore them and that's what they deserve.



2. STAY TOGETHER BECAUSE YOU WANT TO AND NOT BECAUSE YOU NEED TO- So why are you with your partner? I hope it's because you are in love with him or her and they make your feel good and loved. In a strong relationship/ marriage, partner dosent breed dependence rather they encourage independence because no body knows tomorrow. If you love your partner for who they are, they won't try to change you into anything else but will help you to feel strong and more confident and secure as a person.

3. GIVE YOUR PARTNER  THE SPACE HE NEEDS TO THINK WHEN NECCESARY- Your partner sometimes need some time to do things on their own and in their own way, may be they want to see an old friend without you accompanying him, all you have to do as a good wife is to tell him how much you and your family loves him and let him be careful out there with out getting jealous or naggy.  So no nagging, no irritation, no jealousy or childish behavior when your partner tells you they need a bit of space because it will go a long way in keeping your relationship fresh and free from quarels.

4. BE HONOURABLE-  If you want your partner to hold their  head high whenever they are out with you, to feel proud of you, you need to make sure that you  always act with integrity, honesty, Compassion, thoughtfulness,kindness. Your partner should never cover up for your wrong deeds, it is not acceptable to go out with your partner to a social event and they got embarrassingly drunk, it's not cool at all.

5. AFTER GOD, YOUR FAMILY SHOULD BE YOUR FIRST PRIORITY IN LIFE. you have to put your partners hapiness first before your own, you don't have to be selfish in everything,  even to your kids, husband etc. You have to put your self second otherwise their will always be a lot of argument and quarels in your relationship. If none of you put the other first in any thing you do, you are likely going to fight a lot, divorce, or do things your own way. It is in a marriage where both partner put each other first that are strong, loved up and always contented.

6. ACCEPT EACH OTHERS INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES AND EMBRACE WHAT YOU TOO HAVE IN COMMON- The best team contain people with different strength for example,  one of you is great at organizing while the other is good at writing. Partnership are team of 2 and the best team contain people with different strength. As an individual,you are great together and you can achieve great things together not to mention how boring it would be if you were both similar in every aspect- you don't want a clone of your self, do you?

7. NEVER BELITTLE YOUR PARTNER. under no circumstances should you make your partner look like a fool,belittle them, be rude to them, tell jokes at your expense,  discuss their shortcomings even if you are angry with your partner, you should never air your dirty linen in public so men that beat up their wives in public, not only are you showing the world how heartless you are,  you are also making a fo*l out of your self.

8. ALWAYS KNOW WHEN TO APOLOGIZE. Remember apologizing is a way of opening the door of peace and more love in your home and heart. " I am Sorry" doesn't take away anything from you rather you are apologizing to avoid things getting out of hand and for the sake of your kids happiness and home.

9. NEVER STOP TRYING TO BE ACTIVE AND LOOK GOOD. I am not only talking about looks, but also about your behavior and the way you talk to him or her and all the little romantic stuff.  Your kids, house chores, should never be an excuse, make sure you always look good for each other, be available to each other both in bed. Dress to kill as in to make him or her to always be in love with you. Make sure you are neat both inward and out ward. Be faithful to each other, love and and cherish each other and make sure you are map out time for love making and romance because it doesn't have any excuse


To be continued.
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